Its a New year and i know everyone is all about changing things up.loosing a few pounds,leaving the drama behind or just really making everything better this NEW year..But the truth is you dont need a NEW YEAR to change you, you cant really erase the things you did or said last year and you cant really change things up unless your really willing too..Face it you've just got to pick up the pieces from last year and try and mend them together..who said erasing the things you did last year would help things, they wont.. In fact forgetting what you did a few days before January 1st doesn't make life easier, it makes things more complicated and untrue..So we should own up to our mistakes,bad mouths,bad habits and attitudes.Admit that you were not such a nice person a few days ago, ask for forgiveness and move on situation by situation.. Forgiveness is one of the first steps to recovering from a hell of a year, God knows we aren't perfect and he def knows we need the forgiven...