Ladies, i think we have all heard the saying "Happy Wife, Happy life" and i know its not always true. Some of us are not spoiled rotten, i know i'm not HA okay maybe a little spoiled.. i cant help it though, i have a man who SPOILS me.. Any who, on Monday we hit our 7th year of marriage and we sat down and reflected on A LOT. Our past, present,future. through out our marriage, we have both learned to hold back, i think the first 3 years of our marriage were the hardest. I mean we dated a year on and off and then decided one day lets get married literally 1 month later we were married. SO there wasn't a whole lot of room to talk about those deep uncovered issues, worries ect. SO those very things "baggage" per say, literally ripped our marriage a new one. I mean, we literally had NO idea how to treat, talk, comfort one another. Granted we did lose our first baby a few months into our marriage, so THAT...